Tuesday, June 30, 2009

The Iron Horse and Humility

Saturday marks the 70th anniversary of Lou Gehrig's famous "luckiest man" speech, and The New York Times ran a nice piece on it the other day.
Gehrig remains a hero, and his humility shines through in his speech, immortalized in the movie "The Pride of the Yankees." Humility always has been an undervalued trait. We want the big, controversial and larger-than-live stars instead of quieter, team-first, taking-care-of-business athletes, from Gehrig to Pete Sampras to David Robinson. I'd disagree with Bob Costas, who said at the end of the Times' article that Gehrig's humility  stood out even more in comparison to today's prima donna athletes, because it's not that new a phenomenon. In Gehrig's time, personality made headlines, and players like Babe Ruth, Ty Cobb and Dizzy Dean made names for themselves not only with their on-field performance but also their off-field antics. 
His speech was a lesson for all-time, a "Last Lecture" of the 20th century. Here's a man, feeling his once powerful body betray him in unknown ways and having his livelihood wither away, saying that he's thankful for all of the rewards in his life. 
It's a good reality check when the small stuff gets you down, whether it's the kids' selective hearing or some other nuisance. Remember the good in your life. Count your blessings. Cliched? Sure, but it's true.
Gehrig was a simple man in the best possible way - his family came first. Maybe he wasn't the smoothest operator (even though he had movie-star looks), but he loved his wife, was devoted to his mother and took his job seriously. For all his accomplishments, his 493 home runs and his .340 career batting average, the man knew what was most important. 
Lou Gehrig had it right. 

Words of the Week

Savor the moment, always.
"Today, I consider myself the luckiest man on the face of the planet." - Lou Gehrig

Friday, June 26, 2009

"I'll Be There" will never be the same

With the death of Michael Jackson on Thursday, Mrs. Wahoo played some old Jackson 5 for the kids this morning. Matt loved it, but Old Wahoo started singing "I'll Be There" to Alex, who was not impressed. "That's the stupid song from the State Farm commercial," he said. 
Ah, the perils of commercialization.

P.S. Alex watched a video of the Jackson 5 on the "Today" show, and he thought it was cool that Michael was just a kid when he sang "I'll Be There"

Thursday, June 25, 2009

Playtime

Old Wahoo too often thinks of fatherhood as duty. But this article from the Art of Manliness shows that embracing your inner child is necessary. In fact, play helps avoid depression, and it would help not only my kids but me. 
No more writing today - I've got to go out and play.

Monday, June 22, 2009

Words for the Week

This week's quote comes from the boy who could out-Haskell Eddie Haskell:
"The best things in life are free, in fact." - Rob Hetzler

Saturday, June 20, 2009

Happy Father's Day


Thanks to the world's best Dad, and one cool Gramps.

On Fatherhood

President Obama delivered a speech Friday on fatherhood, stressing the importance of dads in their children's lives. For the president, the address had a personal touch, according to The New York Times.
“I say this as someone who grew up without a father in my life,” Mr. Obama said. “That’s something that leaves a hole in a child’s heart that governments can’t fill.”
At npr.org, Peter Breslow has an hilarious commentary on telling his daughters stories of his dog Ralph. Old Wahoo really appreciated this essay because I can relate to Peter having to tell how Ralph climbed Mount Everest, and how the stories became more and more fantastic, because Alex wants - no, demands - stories such as this. Though he usually wants putt-putt stories involving Jabba the Hutt and the Sarlaac pit.

Also, check out Kara Swanson's post about her dad. It's a great read for Father's Day.



Thursday, June 18, 2009

Another Father's Thoughts: New Dad Edition


New dad Marcus LaPratt, a friend from Torch Lake, shares his thoughts on fatherhood.

Age? 33
Number of children and their ages? 1 (age 4 weeks)
Occupation? Musician
How are daughter and mom doing? Doing well. Healthy. Happy.
What is the best part about being a father? Watching her grow so fast in just 4 weeks!
What has surprised you the most about your daughter? Baby acne
As a new dad, what is the toughest challenge that you face? Balancing attention given to baby and attention given to wife and attention given to work.
How was the first 2 a.m. wakeup? Are you used to them yet? My wife refuses to wake me up to help. She thinks it's silly for BOTH parents to be awake. So she lets me sleep!
Any special plans for Father's Day? None.

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

Moose on the Loose


Old Wahoo may be losing his workout partner because the Moose is ready to run away.
For about the past month or so, I've taken Matt on my morning runs, pushing him along in our giant stroller. He was really content in there for a time, but this week he started getting restless, possibly because I was running too slowly, or more likely, he just got bored of my out-of-shape, non-workout warrior routine. He started to stand up while I ran, untangling himself from his belt, and making it a not-so-safe situation, even though he thought it was hilarious.
Anyway, I thought about using duct tape to keep him down, but I figured the Moose is slipperier than any eel and would squirm away. At least he still does pushups and situps with me. Maybe I can get him to spot me with my lifting now.

The New Fatherhood

USA Today ran an interesting story on the changing nature of fatherhood. I thought much of the story was spot on, though I thinks it's always been "cool ... to be an active, involved father." I think more and more dads are tackling what were formerly "maternal" duties (i.e. changing diapers, carpooling, etc.) and that maybe never should have had gender tags on them. With women working more and more, and with the economic downturn, it's a trend that likely will continue and even accelerate.
For me, it's not always easy. Recently, Laura said that helping out with other people's children by baby-sitting, play dates, etc. was "the currency of mothers," which was meant as encouragement to me. I know it should not have, but it made me feel uneasy and somehow lacking, like it was an assault on my manhood instead of a suggestion to help me navigate fatherhood. For me, my ego still gets in the way.
What do you think? Has fatherhood changed? What are some of the challenges? How can I avoid letting my ego get in the way? Am I too touchy-feely?

SIDE NOTE: The USA Today article mentions DadLabs.com. I checked it out, and it's pretty cool.

Tuesday, June 16, 2009

Words for the Week

No matter what, dream big.
"Think Fantastic." - Chuck Ramkissoon in the book "Netherland"

Remembering Fathers

On Father's Day, while we celebrate with cookouts and backyard ballgames, let's take some time to remember the families that aren't together, the ones with fathers far away and in harm's way. NPR had a great story on a Marine family, and how they manage being apart.

Thursday, June 11, 2009

Sneak Peek

In a time where nothing is ever as simple as it seems ...
In a place where chaos reigns supreme ...
Civil war rages, pitting brother against brother ...
against brother!
Toys will be thrown! Tempers will be lost!
Who will emerge with their sanity intact?
You'll laugh.
You'll cry.
You'll scream and shout. (At least I will.)
SCHOOL'S OUT FOR THE SUMMER
COMING JUNE 2009
THE ADVENTURE BEGINS TODAY

Wednesday, June 10, 2009

Adding to the Reading List

According to Geekdad, Michael Chabon will release a book of essays on fatherhood this fall. Chabon wrote one of my favorite books, "The Adventures of Kavalier and Clay," so I'm interested to read his latest effort. I'm sure that news pleases Mrs. Wahoo, who no doubt loves looking at the growing stack of books.

Tuesday, June 9, 2009

What's with "Up"?

Mrs. Wahoo and I took the kids to see "Up" this weekend, and only the Moose sat still for it. Both Rob and Alex thought there were parts that were too scary - in fact, Alex acted as if we had taken him to see "Drag Me to Hell" instead of a Pixar movie. 
At first, I thought the kids over-reacted, and part of me thinks they still did, that though parts of the movie were intense, the kids were just intimidated by a movie theater's surroundings and large, loud sounds. I know I was scared when I saw some movies when I was younger. 
Apparently, though, our kids weren't the only ones who thought "Up" was too frigthening. One woman, who has a 6-year-old and 4-year-old like us, had a similar experience, and she had to take her kids to the lobby. 
Did anyone else see "Up"? What did you think? And what are some ways to help your kids relax and become more comfortable at the movies?

Monday, June 8, 2009

Words of the Week

In remembrance of D-Day.
Humility must always be the portion of any man who receives acclaim earned in the blood of his followers and the sacrifices of his friends. 
- Dwight D. Eisenhower

Saturday, June 6, 2009

Check this out

Kim Clexton writes a blog entitled Mad Mommy Meanderings, that shows her family life from a mother's perspective. It's funny, and the latest entry on her youngest daughter Natalie and the makeup salesman is hilarious. Natalie and Rob went to preschool together, and while they're unique, they share a certain energy and attitude. So check it out. (And thanks for the kind words, Kim.)

Friday, June 5, 2009

Enough whining - summer's here

Old Wahoo is ready for the weekend. Who isn't? And after yesterday's post, I think I need a break. (Sorry if that sounded like whining.)
I'm already planning my summer. I think Mrs. Wahoo and I may take the kids to see "Up" this weekend, and Rob and Alex are "camping out" with their Papa on Saturday. 
I'm hoping this summer to hike Sleeping Bear Dunes - I've never been there before - and I'd like to go to the Hemingway house in Petoskey, though that may not be a family friendly activity, unless the kids are into boredom that week. 
I also plan on working on some goals this summer - running in a 5K and expanding my creative/freelance writing top my list. I'd also like to go kayaking.
What are your plans this summer? Is there anything cool coming up?

Thursday, June 4, 2009

All a blur


It's been a busy few weeks, from Alex's preschool graduation to Matt's baptism and a little bit of everything in between. 
  • Alex had a preschool picnic in the rain, and though it may have made me cringe, the boys loved playing in the puddles. 
  • My parents flew in from Virginia for the baptism, and it was great seeing them, even though I had to work much of the time they were here.
  • We had baptism "practice" - really a brief overview of the service and what we had to say - and Matt rambled through the church like a bull in a china shop - or maybe a Moose in a sanctuary. Though he howled when we pretended to put water on him, he was pretty composed for the service on Sunday, even though all he wanted to do was sit with his big brothers.
  • We had a baptism picnic after the service, which I think went well. I was pretty zoned out by then, though. 
  • On Monday, Old Wahoo helped Rob's first-grade class with a lemonade stand, which was moved inside because of the weather. I think we made enough lemonade to slake the entire Grosse Pointe Schools' thirst.
Now I need a nap.

Wednesday, June 3, 2009

Managing Losing

Old Wahoo isn't sure Manny Acta is the best role model (after all, his Washington Nationals are 14-36 and owners of the worst record in baseball after Tuesday's victory over the San Francisco Giants), but I like the perspective he showed in this column by Thomas Boswell in last week's Washington Post. Failure can tear you down if you let it, but one failure doesn't mean the end. We have more than one act in our lives, or some mumbo jumbo like that, and I think that's applicable to these times, at least for me.
Boswell writes that some of baseball's greatest managers (Casey Stengal, Miller Huggins, Joe Torre) bounced back from horrible starts to their careers. 
Still, there's no guarantee that Acta will become a Hall of Fame manager or World Series winner, as I'm sure any Nationals fan (if there are any) would say.

Tuesday, June 2, 2009

Michael Lewis and Fatherhood

Michael Lewis, the author of "Moneyball," one of Old Wahoo's favorite books, has written a new book entitled "Home Game: An Accidental Guide to Fatherhood." If it's as good as most of the stuff he has done, it should be excellent, and I'm hoping it's not some sappy, "Tuesdays with Morrie"-type deal with a lesson learned at the end of each chapter. He talked about it with Matt Lauer on the Today Show on Monday. If you have five minutes, it's worth a look. I think a lot of his feelings are familiar.
Here's an excerpt from the book, and here's an interesting Q&A with Lewis from MSNBC.com.

Monday, June 1, 2009

Words for the Week

Old Wahoo reaches into his inner nerd - fortunately or unfortunately, that's not muck of a reach - for some geeky inspiration.
"I don't believe in the no-win scenario." - James T. Kirk, "Star Trek"